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Divorcing a narcissist will test every nerve you have; this isn't for the faint of heart.
It is one of the most mind-bending, soul-draining things you'll ever survive; nothing prepares you for that level of crazy. But divorcing one, and their equally off-the-rails, narcissistic lawyer? That's a whole new circle of hell nobody warns you about, until now.
The Good The Bad and The Divorce is not another fluffy pep talk, it's a battle-tested guide for real people who have decided that staying in a broken marriage is no longer an option.
Author Oscar Chavarria has walked this path. After five years, eight lawyers, and enough legal fees to make anyone question reality, he became a Certified Divorce Coach® to help you do it better, with less pain, less chaos, and a whole lot more clarity.
The Good, The Bad, and The Divorce will teach you:
What to do when friends and family give you terrible advice (and they will)
How to handle that "ambivalent zone" - should you stay or should you go?
Real stories and hard truths about the traps lawyers won't warn you about
The "Rubik's Cube" of divorce: why you need a strategy, not just a lawyer
How to protect your money, your sanity, and your kids from the fallout
Perspective shifts to help you stop feeling alone, because you're not
Tips to Protect Your Sanity and Mental Health
And so much more!
This book isn't going to sugarcoat your dire situation, but it will offer invaluable tips, advice, and information to give you the best possible chance at the most favorable outcome. You'll survive your divorce, and this book makes for great company in this difficult chapter of your life.
Divorce is more than a legal fight, it's a mental, emotional, and financial test.
Most people think they need just a good lawyer. They don't.
They need a roadmap, a dose of honesty, and a reminder that nice tees won't get you up Mount Kilimanjaro.
If you're lying awake at 3 AM wondering if leaving is worse than staying, or if you're already knee-deep in the court system, this book is for you.
It's your sign that you're not crazy, you're not alone, and there is a way through this with your dignity intact.
This book hands you that clarity, so you don't pay a price higher than you have to.